Leaders have to step down as well, or better yet, become a student before they take their place. You can’t just assume your position just because you want to be the one in charge. Other than that, you have to keep an open mind as a leader, yes keep your ground, but you can’t push ideas away, especially if that’s what your people want. Think about it, if you think you’re the leader you think you are, then look at yourself through one of your member’s eyes.

Man, there’s so many bgirls now, I feel so discouraged. It’s like hey they can do that, and I’m barely doing this. Eh, I’ll get there, eventually.

hurricanehillary:

To me, if an ex is able to stay friends with you after a breakup, it tells you that when you guys were together, they actually liked you for you, and that being with you was just a way to get to know you better. They’re a keeper if they can look past the awkwardness of the fact you guys had a thing, and be friends just like before.

(via smilinglikebarrbie)

Sure you may see one thing, but is that the real thing? You talking about someone else’s story, considering that you do not know all the details, and when you tell someone, you don’t even know if what you are telling is what they want everyone to know because, face it, people talk. People not only talk, but assume, they fill in the gaps as to what doesn’t make sense to them, then it goes around. But you are spreading false information, leading those who you are talking about, in deep crap that shouldn’t have happened. Think before you open your mouth, and consider your words before you tell someone about someone else’s story.

johnxdope:

• When a person laughs too much, even on stupid things, that person is sad deep inside
• When a person sleeps a lot, that person is lonely
• When a person talks less and if he talks fast, that person is keeping a secret
• When a person can’t cry, that person is weak
• When a person eats in an abnormal way, that person is in tension
• When a person cries on little things, that person is softhearted
• When someone asks about you although that someone is busy, he/she really loves you

(Source: shyieesolove, via jeremyxattack)

(Source: borntomakeanimpact, via cleanvibes)

I have a dang project due tomorrow that I didn’t even start. I constantly go on Tumblr and I haven’t done much.